Myleah Rhynes had spent nearly 24 hours in ER exam rooms at Children’s Medical Center Dallas on Christmas day. She hadn't slept. She hadn't eaten. She wasn't sure if her children and husband would live.
Then something happened that made Myleah so happy that she cried.
When her children were taken to their rooms in the intensive care unit, each one had six presents waiting for them. "As soon as I saw it, I just started bawling," Myleah said. "Those gifts meant the world to us last year, so we want to do the same thing for other families."
The presents were the first bright spot for Myleah since she received a phone call that no parent would want to receive. On Christmas Eve of 2009, a nurse from a small Oklahoma hospital called to tell her that her husband, Daniel, and their three children were hit by another car on their drive back from visiting grandparents.
Myleah wasn't in the car with her family because she stayed home to make Christmas Eve dinner at their home in Providence Village, TX, about 30 miles north of Dallas.
"My neighbor had just stepped over to say ‘Merry Christmas,' when I received the call" Myleah said. "I don't remember this, but she says I was screaming and throwing the phone and pushing her away from me. I lost it."
As soon as Myleah made it to the Oklahoma hospital, staff there told her that the children needed to be transferred to a Level I trauma center. The children were sent to Children's Medical Center, and Daniel was sent to an adult hospital in Dallas.
Morgen, 9, and Meadow, 6, had severe internal injuries from where their seatbelts sliced into their abdomens. Meadow also had spinal and neurological damage. Both were rushed into surgery. Joffrey, 1, was only bruised, but he was in shock and screamed every time anyone got near him.
"Those were the scariest 24 hours of my life," Myleah said. No family or friends could be with her because a snowstorm had shut down the roads. The staff at Children's did their best to make sure she wasn't alone.
"Rosie Nolan was our nurse in the emergency department at Children's, and she was just phenomenal," she said. "After I had been there around 18 hours, I started passing out from exhaustion and shock, and she made sure I took a nap. And the social workers and staff never left my side, which meant a lot, because I couldn't believe they'd be willing to do that on Christmas Day."
Myleah said the next few days following Christmas were a blur of signing papers in waiting rooms while Morgen and Meadow underwent multiple surgeries. In addition to their abdominal surgeries, they needed operations to repair collapsed lungs. Meadow also had to have her skull and spine realigned.
Day by day, the girls continued to get better, and both were back home by February along with the rest of their family. Daniel spent a week in the hospital recovering from head trauma and a broken leg. By the middle of May, the girls were back in school, and Joffrey was rampaging through the house again.
The long-term effects on their health appear to be minimal at this point. Meadow has some vision issues, but glasses have corrected most of those. Morgen and Joffrey show almost no lasting signs the wreck ever happened.
"Kids are amazing," Myleah said. "If any of that happened to me, I would probably still be debilitated. But they're resilient and running around and having a great time."
Morgen and Meadow made a big return to Children's by serving as grand marshals in the Children's Medical Center Holiday Parade.
"The girls were so excited," Myleah said. "It was phenomenal. They had only seen small-town street parades before that, so they enjoyed every minute they were there."
She said the family will make another trip to the hospital when they drop off gifts to the child life department. "It will be our family Christmas tradition from now on."